About Life

 

 

 

 

From early childhood, my emotional issues with self-acceptance started. Navigating to understand friends and family, co-dependency began taking hold of my conscience, decisions, and habits. I struggled intensely with understanding the difference between people pleasing and having manners, which later developed into rebellion against years of this living pattern into full blown disrespect and chaotic substance fuelled behaviour with no respect for people. I found solace with alcohol and used that as a ‘feel-good’ remedy from 12 years young. Every weekend drink sessions all in hiding and dishonesty about locations, covering up being intoxicated in time to be sober for appearance. At 17 began a 7-year stretch on drugs and marijuana, getting as wasted as possible was the mission. Involved with the underground dance scene and being a DJ, threw private parties. I travelled London and Dublin at the peaks of my intoxicated years, throwing my name away constantly, barred from 8 places all simultaneously in Dublin I had reached my pivot point of being a hooligan. Hired a venue and started a private dance movement there and that is when I knew that I needed to turn my life around.

 

 

Another 20 years and a massive amount of research and life learning is what it took to undo my deeply damaged image, character and self-belief of who I had become, whatever that was, it was not me! I had encountered spiritual activities beyond what is earthly normal, had been in the most uniquely dangerous situations continuously and yet managed to keep holding onto what I believed was a better life for me, with no idea of how to even pick up the pieces that remained. Then I had to quickly understand the danger of the spiritual realm or possibly lose my life. Further still, after getting a decent grip on myself had 15 years thrown at me from a completely different angle and found myself struggling financially while pulled into the character issues of people close to me, I was just the bait waiting to be bitten. Still trying to people please.

 

 

I was due to be engaged and then stress, along with being unstable on marijuana caused 30 years of chaos to come arriving all at once. That relationship fell apart fast. It took me years to figure out where it failed and how I played my part. First, studying certain coaches and psychologists gave me an understanding of where the roots of my destruction began, emotionally and physically. At 48 years of age and during 24 years of mending, the road of emotional recovery finally becomes rewarding, a motivation that is never ending. It is a life decision that a person makes or does not, there is no easy way to sobriety and soul connection. It just depends on how deep the generational matters go and how deep into the mess one is, simple. 

 

 

My 24 and 21 years free from drugs and alcohol, excluded marijuana. I believed that I had to smoke in stages to avoid losing my mind, which was truth, although time taught me that smoking caused emotional instability and disconnection from reality, while wrecking my health and energy. I had always set huge long-term goals since childhood and strived to achieve them. Published my Autobiography in 2023, massive tests and trials worked through, kept aiming as high as possible, without substances. I got certified in Addiction Recovery and Transformation Coaching to complete a two-decade goal which took on its own setbacks entirely although that never stopped me. It just made me realise that the task was too easy and small to begin with. My maker and saviour wanted me to push for much more serious outcome, to change the view of life and recovery for a whole new generation. I have put my life at risk for what I believe, and nothing will stop me talking the truth, despite what certain folk have already had to say.

 

 

The details hereof can be read in my book titled Consider This (Revised Edition).

 

 

 

My Offer to You

 

 

From personal experience in early childhood emotional matters and co-dependency characteristics identified, I relate to people and their concerns. My compassion for others and animals was evident in my childhood. Forty years of sorting, coping, managing and then succeeding in subconscious programming, I provide structured thinking and pattern building for anyone who requires and understands the path ahead is a self-made choice. It is not a temporary journey or solution but a permanent life choice that unfolds every hidden element of your struggles, skills, talents, and what is always possible to achieve.

 

 

We set goals together; I assist to monitor your thoughts and decisions daily when you need guidance. Once we know your ambitions, the outcome is reached with constant progression. A focus on diet, daily tasks, patterns, hobbies, exercise, business, emotional boosting, confidence, all combine in a variety of elements per your interests and life. Using natural plant-based remedies, allows connection back to what is pure. A never-ending solution with wide variety of cures from detoxing, emotional stability to physical body necessity, all wrapped up and solved with nature only, purity. 

 

 

Reprogramming the mind to allow one's central nervous system to relay vital signals and information from brain to every organ within the body. You begin to learn and feel the instant effects of how you function and what you are truly capable of, anything that your soul desires, within logical reasoning. Days become weeks and then months of inner healing, body energy and strength become power that is from your own effort and outcomes of success. Once months turn into years, you have transformed your physical and mental being into a reprogrammed unit of whatever you set your mind to.

 

Those who persevere succeed and those who succeed, persevere! This saying was made up by me in the beginning of my underground clubbing years.  

 

 

You are what you want to be and that is limitless, there is a ton to learn every day, it is about how much you want to grasp. Let me show you what is possible because after 24 years of being on this path, I have discovered a whole new mind blowing, body energy ambition factor every week, and it is all fresh and waiting to be explored.

 

Sincerely

 

Wayfo Coaching